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You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.

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It’s a brand new year and the perfect time for a fresh start. Would you like to be in a new relationship? Or, would you like your current relationship to be warmer and closer? This is your chance to make a change. 2014 can be your year to get the love and closeness you’ve been longing for in your life!

Many people do not understand how to find love, so they search for love in all the wrong places. Then, when their efforts fail, they begin to feel down about themselves and lose hope of ever finding love. This is tragic, yet it happens to many good-hearted people. How can this be? Because they concentrate their search for love by looking outside of themselves!

I want to let you in on a big secret for opening up your channels to love. You can’t chase after love – if you do, you can end up driving it away! You have to learn how to become magnetic to love! Becoming a “love magnet” is really about learning to love yourself.

You must love yourself if you want to fully love another. 

To help you do this, I’ve created a free worksheet as my gift to you for this New Year! Get it here: Self-Critical Worksheet

It is crucial to let go of self-critical thoughts. This is the path to confidence, so you can be your best with your partner or with new people you meet. Self-acceptance and love allow you to be more understanding of other’s differences.

What self-critical thoughts could you let go of today that would allow you to be a more fully magnetic you? Post your comments below!